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Poly Philia is a a social media project dedicated to bite-size education and entertainment on polyamory, non-monogamy, and personal growth in open relationships, run by Leanne Yau (she/they). I have been actively non-monogamous since 2016, and my work is influenced by my own experiences as a Gen Z bisexual, autistic, Chinese woman. I create and curate humorous and educational memes, tips, videos, and other content on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube. I am the creator of the #PolyamoryTipoftheDay series, narrator of several polyamory audiobooks, podcaster on the Happy Polydays miniseries, and I also provide private peer support to non-monogamous individuals and couples worldwide. I aim to use my content to raise awareness about non-monogamy and educate others in a down-to-earth and entertaining way that is visually engaging and easily accessible.

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Poly Philia is a meme page and personal blog about polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and personal growth in open relationships. I use memes to raise awareness and educate others in a down-to-earth and humorous way, and strive to create a community for people to have a laugh and bond over their experiences in ethical non-monogamy together. Supporting me on Ko-Fi will bring a smile to my face, just like I hope to bring one to yours every day!

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This is if you just want to show a little bit of appreciation for my work. You get a special Instagram Stories shoutout and my eternal gratitude!

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£3 per month

You get: - exclusive access to my post archive, which contains workshops, interviews, TV reviews of polyamorous representation, unreleased memes, and all my Q&As - 1 small sticker of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 3 months. - 20% off all peer support bookings - a special Instagram Stories shoutout *Comet: an occasional lover who passes through one's life semi-regularly, but without an expectation of continuity or a romantic relationship. For legal reasons, the tier name is just for fun and not an acknowledgement of official partner status.

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£5 per month

You get: - access to my Close Friends list on Instagram, my personal video diary. Every week, I share examples, case studies, and screenshots from lovers and friends (with consent!), details on my dating/sex life, my personal wins, failures, life lessons and reflections, and the occasional sexy story and Q&A. You also get access to all my previous entries dating back to November 2021. - 1 pin button OR 1 card OR 4 small stickers of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 6 months AND all the benefits in the Friend and Comet tiers: - exclusive access to my post archive, which contains workshops, interviews, TV reviews of polyamorous representation, unreleased memes, and all my Q&As - 1 small sticker of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 3 months. - 20% off all peer support bookings - a special Instagram Stories shoutout *Metamour: your partner's partner, who you are not dating. For legal reasons, the tier name is just for fun and not blanket permission for you to date my partners.

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£10 per month

You get: - Monthly video discussions - join me and other members once a month to ask your questions, share stories and resources, get advice, and discuss/debate with like-minded people! - Unlimited email support - if you ever need advice, support, or just to vent about your non-monogamy journey, my email is open for you to write to me anytime you want, and I will respond with my thoughts! AND all the benefits in the Friend, Comet, and Metamour tiers: - access to my Close Friends list on Instagram, my personal video diary. Every week, I share examples, case studies, and screenshots from lovers and friends (with consent!), details on my dating/sex life, my personal wins, failures, life lessons and reflections, and the occasional sexy story and Q&A. You also get access to all my previous entries dating back to November 2021. - exclusive access to my post archive, which contains workshops, interviews, TV reviews of polyamorous representation, unreleased memes, and all my Q&As - 1 small sticker of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 3 months - 1 pin button OR 1 card OR 4 small stickers of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 6 months - 20% off all peer support bookings - a special Instagram Stories shoutout *Lover: a loose term for any loving relationship, often interchangeable with "partner". For legal reasons, the tier name is just for fun and not an acknowledgement of official partner status.

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£25 per month

You get: - Free access to recordings of all my polyamory workshops - normally priced at £10-15 each! AND all the benefits in the Friend, Comet, Metamour, and Lover tiers: - Monthly video discussions - join me and other members once a month to ask your questions, share stories and resources, get advice, and discuss/debate with like-minded people! - Unlimited email support - if you ever need advice, support, or just to vent about your non-monogamy journey, my email is open for you to write to me anytime you want, and I will respond with my thoughts! - access to my Close Friends list on Instagram, my personal video diary. Every week, I share examples, case studies, and screenshots from lovers and friends (with consent!), details on my dating/sex life, my personal wins, failures, life lessons and reflections, and the occasional sexy story and Q&A. You also get access to all my previous entries dating back to November 2021. - exclusive access to my post archive, which contains workshops, interviews, TV reviews of polyamorous representation, unreleased memes, and all my Q&As - 1 small sticker of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 3 months - 1 pin button OR 1 card OR 4 small stickers of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 6 months - 20% off all peer support bookings - a special Instagram Stories shoutout *Unicorn: a single person who is willing to date an existing couple, either for casual play or to form a three-way triad relationship. For legal reasons, the tier name is just for fun and not an acknowledgement of official unicorn status.

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£60 per month

You get: - 1 hour of 1-1 VIDEO PEER SUPPORT every month (normally costs £70) - if you are looking for regular peer support with me, subscribing at this tier is your most cost-effective option! AND all the benefits in the Friend, Comet, Metamour, Lover, and Unicorn tiers: - Free access to recordings of all my polyamory workshops - normally priced at £10-15 each! - Monthly video discussions - join me and other members once a month to ask your questions, share stories and resources, get advice, and discuss/debate with like-minded people! - Unlimited email support - if you ever need advice, support, or just to vent about your non-monogamy journey, my email is open for you to write to me anytime you want, and I will respond with my thoughts! - access to my Close Friends list on Instagram, my personal video diary. Every week, I share examples, case studies, and screenshots from lovers and friends (with consent!), details on my dating/sex life, my personal wins, failures, life lessons and reflections, and the occasional sexy story and Q&A. You also get access to all my previous entries dating back to November 2021. - exclusive access to my post archive, which contains workshops, interviews, TV reviews of polyamorous representation, unreleased memes, and all my Q&As - 1 small sticker of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 3 months - 1 pin button OR 1 card OR 4 small stickers of your choice from my Redbubble shop at 6 months - 20% off all peer support bookings - a special Instagram Stories shoutout *Anchor: a non-hierarchical term for a long-standing and typically logistically entangled romantic relationship. For legal reasons, the tier name is just for fun and not an acknowledgement of official partner status.

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